Choose clarity over confusion - Confidence over doubt

Go from feeling trapped in an unhappy marriage to creating the relationship and life you really want

You've tried everything. You've read the books, attempted the conversations, analysed every angle until your brain hurt. But nothing has changed the fundamental truth: you're living like a shadow in your own life, going through the motions while your soul is slowly dying

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CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER
CHANGE STARTS THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER

The Truth No One Talks About

Your marriage didn't break overnight. It eroded slowly, bit by bit, chipping away at you, until you woke up one day feeling like strangers sharing a mortgage. The problem isn't that you're 'broken' or 'want too much', it's that you've been working from subconscious beliefs that have had you settling and compromising in the most important relationship you are meant to have.

Every time you swallow your words to keep the peace, every time you make yourself small trying to avoid his temper or shutdown, every time you pour another glass of wine to numb the pain in your chest - you're reinforcing patterns that started long before you even met him.

Here's what I know about you: You're not the woman who settles. You're not the woman who accepts crumbs and calls it a feast. But somewhere along the way, you learned to abandon yourself for the comfort of others and now you're drowning in a life that looks perfect from the outside but feels like emotional death on the inside.

What THRIVE Actually Does

This isn't another 'communicate better' program. This is deep inner work that gets to the root of why you are stuck in this cycle of hope and despair and how to change it once and for all - not just with him, but in every relationship in your life.

Phase 1: See the Invisible Patterns

We identify the patterns across ALL your relationships - not just your marriage. You'll recognise what sets off your emotional reactions, explore how your upbringing shaped your relationship beliefs and understand your attachment patterns and triggers.

This isn't therapy. This is deep work to uncover the unconscious programming that's been running your love life.

Phase 2: Break the Cycle

You'll learn to stay centred during difficult conversations, practice non-blaming clear communication and develop tools for creating and maintaining boundaries.

We examine how past experiences impact your present choices and help you see disagreements as opportunities for connection instead of threats to your safety.

Phase 3: Reclaim Your Power

This is where everything shifts. You'll identify the ways you undermine your own happiness, examine how you abandon yourself for others comfort and learn to ask for what you need effectively.

We start with low-stakes situations so you can build your confidence before having the bigger conversations that could change everything.

The Transformation

Before THRIVE

• Walking on eggshells, analysing every interaction

• Feeling like you're married to a stranger

• 3am anxiety about your life choices and options

• Exhausted from being the only one who cares

• Numb, going through the motions

• Kids learning that marriage means emotional starvation

After THRIVE

• Speaking your truth without fear of punishment

• Clear boundaries that feel natural, not forced

• Sleeping peacefully with unshakeable self-worth

• Magnetic presence that draws respect and love

• Alive in your own skin, sexually vital again

• Modelling authentic love for your children

It's time to get off the Merry-Go-Round

You find yourself caught in an endless cycle of dreaming of the perfect life, either alone or with your relationship problems 'fixed', weighing all the pros and cons and searching for the 'right' decision.

But it gets you nowhere because family and marriage are layered with complexities.

And despite your efforts, it feels like a personal failure, because everything else in your life has been met with great success, but this 'one-thing' feels impossible to solve.

This struggle goes deeper than just making a decision. Your marriage has become part of your identity as a successful woman who 'has it all together' and admitting it might be over challenges your identity.

But carrying the weight of everyone else's happiness; your children, your husband, even your extended family, is overwhelming and leaves you feeling paralysed and stuck.

And underneath all of that, there's genuine fear about your future. You've built a financially comfortable life and the thought of starting again triggers deep concerns about safety, security and lifestyle.

So all of this creates a perfect storm that keeps smart, capable women trapped in a cycle of indecision that can last for years, sometimes even decades.

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But Imagine Instead If You Could...

CLARITY

Gain crystal-clear understanding of what you truly want from your marriage and life; finally breaking free from the mental loops that have kept you stuck for months or even years.

You'll move from confusion to certainty, equipped with a personalized decision framework that honours both your head and heart.

CONFIDENCE

Gain unshakable trust in your ability to make this decision and navigate whatever comes next.

You'll replace self-doubt with inner knowing, find your voice again and feel empowered to create a future aligned with your deepest values;

Whether that means revitalising your marriage or beginning a new chapter.

PEACE

Gain deep, lasting relief from the constant anxiety and second-guessing that's been draining your energy and joy.

You'll reclaim mental space, emotional freedom and the ability to be fully present in your life, instead of constantly rehearsing scenarios in your mind.

introducing

THRIVE

Go from feeling trapped in an unhappy marriage...to gaining clarity, confidence and peace about your next steps

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let's break it down

Here's what you'll learn...

MODULE 1

Designing Your Dream Life: Setting Powerful Goals for Lasting Change

You’ll learn how to:

Take bold, intentional action so your dream life becomes your reality.
Set Powerful Goals for Lasting Change.
Gain crystal-clear clarity on what you truly want in life and set aligned goals that bring true happiness and fulfillment.

Unravelling Your Past: How Childhood & Family Shaped the Woman You Are Today

You’ll discover:

How your past influences your present, allowing you to break free from limiting cycles and step into the woman you want to be.
How your childhood & family shaped the woman you are today and what you are passing onto your own children.
How your upbringing shaped your beliefs, patterns and relationships and how to eliminate self-limiting beliefs.

MODULE 2

MODULE 3

Healing The Child Within: Releasing Old Wounds & Reclaiming Your Power

You'll learn:

How to nurture and heal your inner child so you can free yourself from self-doubt, people pleasingly and fear.
Ways to show up with confidence and emotional freedom so you can set healthy boundaries for yourself and others.

Unshakable Confidence & Mindset Mastery: Rewiring Your Thoughts for Success

You'll learn how to:

Reprogram limiting beliefs so know you can trust yourself to do whatever you set your mind to
Strengthen self-worth and know what you truly deserve
Develop a mindset that empowers you to follow your dreams and own your desires unapologetically

MODULE 4

MODULE 5

Magnetic Communication: Speak Your Truth & Be Heard Without Fear or Conflict

You'll be able to:

Speak with clarity and confidence without fear of conflict or shutdown
Set boundaries with ease and reduce resentment of being taken for granted
Create deeper, more connected relationships not just with your partner but with family, friends and peers too

Empowered Parenting: Raising Thriving, Emotionally Strong Children

You'll discover:

How to instil self-worth, confidence and boundaries in your children so they grow up trusting themselves and have emotional
Ways to model healthy love for their future relationships
The path to creating a nurturing, supportive environment for your kids.

MODULE 6

MODULE 7

Abundance Activation: Rewriting Your Money Story & Stepping into Wealth

In this module you'll:

Understand how your financial reality is shaped by subconscious beliefs inherited from your past and how to rewire them
Break free from scarcity thinking and know what you are worthy of
Develop an empowered money mindset so you can follow your true desires
Confidently create financial opportunities on your terms

The Power of Your Circle: How Your Tribe & Influences Shape Your Future

In this module, you'll learn:

How the people around you influence your energy, mindset and success
How to identify and attract a supportive, high-vibe tribe that aligns with your growth and empowers your journey

MODULE 8

MODULE 9

Deep Self-Care: Nurturing Your Well-Being & Thriving in Every Area of Life

You'll understand:

How to truly prioritise yourself without feeling guilty or selfish
Ways to replenish your energy to everyone else's benefit
The importance of building habits that support your mental, emotional and physical well-being so you can be the empowered woman you really are

Everything you need to go from

self-doubt to self-trust

By the end of this course, you’ll have complete clarity on what you want for your life, the confidence to make empowered decisions and the tools to create a future filled with happiness, fulfillment and financial abundance.

You’ll break free from self-doubt, strengthen your relationships and finally put yourself first - without guilt - so you can thrive in every aspect of your life.

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And that's not all..

You'll also get instant access to these resources to support your journey

(Bonus Training)

How to Resolve Conflict

Learn how to handle disagreements with ease so your home remains calm and peaceful

(Bonus Training)

The Secret to a Love That Lasts

Discover how to speak your partner’s love language so you both feel valued, loved and deeply connected

don't wait another second to get started

Every day that passes is another day you'll wish you had this figured out

Choose the plan that works best for you:

THRIVE

✓ Instant Access to the Full Program - with lifetime access

✓ 2 Bonus Modules

1 PAYMENT OF £495

THRIVE VIP

✓ Instant Access to the Full Program - with lifetime access

✓ 2 BONUS MODULES

✓ 3 X 90 MINUTE 1-1 SESSIONS, SO WE CAN DEEP DIVE INTO YOUR SITUATION AND HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE IN ORDER FOR YOU TO GROW AND THRIVE

✓ 6 MONTHS OF UNLIMITED WHATSAPP SUPPORT SO YOU HAVE ME IN YOUR BACK POCKET WHENEVER YOU NEED ME FOR SUPPORT, ADVICE OR ACCOUNTABILITY

1 PAYMENT OF £1500

Jonie took back control and created a new life

"Thank you Pascale! I can’t sing your praises highly enough."

You came into my life at a time when I needed to make some changes but I was scared and I was stuck. You not only helped me out of that situation but have helped me to transform my life. It is just fantastic. I am so grateful to you!

Sandra got clarity on who she really is and wHAT she wants in her life

"I feel clear about me"

Pascale has taught me how to look closely at my life and unpick everything so I feel clear about me. She has an amazing, friendly and professional approach to everything with a best friend twist. Has a great book to read to get an insight into her work and to start you on your journey to being the best you.

Lucy broke the cycle of trauma so her children can thrive now too

"I am a much better Mummy thanks to you"

You helped me understand my past so I could change my children’s future. There is no price I wouldn’t pay for that!

hey there, i'm pascale lane

Your Relationship & Confidence Coach

Hi, I'm Pascale and I help professional women create the fulfilling relationship they deserve while enhancing every aspect of their life and happiness by addressing not just them, but their entire ecosystem.

As a relationship therapist and transformational coach, I really understand the impact of understanding not just WHO you are, but WHY you are who you are; why your relationship is stuck in a rut; why you feel the self-doubt and lack of confidence that you do… And then help you change it. Not just in the short term, but for good!

And the bonus is that when you have good levels of confidence and self worth, you not only create healthy relationships around you, but are also able to model to your children the value of healthy relationships too.

Have a question?

Don't see your question below? Send us an email at [email protected] and we'll get back to you ASAP!

I've done counselling in the past; what makes this different?

As a relationship therapist, I understand the value of therapy. However, over the years I have learnt from so many of my clients that their experience of therapy was static and didn't move them forwards in the way they had hoped.

My Thrive course (and VIP Experience) are designed to help you understand yourself fully, your strengths, weaknesses, behaviours, triggers and motivation as well as exploring how much of your own experience of your parents relationship growing up informs not only your self concept but also your current relationship.

My marriage isn't in crisis, but I just feel so unhappy. Will this course help?

Absolutely! This is a holistic, personal development course which not only sheds light on the status of your relationship but fundamentally your identity and self-awareness. It will give you all the tools you need to go into your next chapter with confidence and self-trust, with a clear understanding of why you act, behave and respond in the way that you do and support positive changes for you and your family.

I really want to do it but I don't have the money. What can I do?

I understand. It is a commitment. However, I also know that if you want to change your life, you have to make a decision to invest in yourself in order to gain clarity and peace of mind. There are 2 options to choose from and I am truly confident that you will be delighted with the result. Ultimately, if nothing changes, nothing changes. You are the only person that can choose.

What's the difference between this and your 1-1 Worthy program?

The Thrive self-study course is exactly that. Self-paced to work around your own schedule.

If you buy the VIP Experience, you will additionally receive 3 x 90 minute 1-1 sessions with me as well as 6 months of unlimited WhatsApp support.

My Worthy program is a 4 month experience where you will receive 12 x 1-1 sessions over a period of 4-6 months, to gain clarity as to whether to Stay in your relationship or Go. It includes unlimited WhatsApp support and the Thrive course. There is also the option to bring your partner in towards the end of our work to do some couples therapy or separation therapy if you choose to do so. The program can also be extended with addition blocks of sessions if needed.