are you asking yourself this question...
Should I stay or should I go?
How to know if it is really over?
Are you struggling with your relationship and feel
like you just can’t go on like this anymore ?
Do you feel you like you have lost your connection with your partner but also with yourself?
Ladies...
If you feel like you are committed to your relationship and family life, but feel worn down, exhausted and numb, thenNOW is the time to do something about it!
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Is this you?
Here are some of the most common relationship challenges that might sound familiar:
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You have been unhappy in your relationship for so long now, you can't remember what it feels like to be happy and fulfilled. |
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Maybe you've been burying your head in the sand for so long pretending to the world everything is 'ok', that you've neglected to address the real reasons behind your unhappiness? |
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Perhaps you've thrown yourself into work, losing all sense of work/life balance, working weekends and losing valuable time with your partner, and as a result, you have lost the connection, communication and intimacy? |


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You have nothing really to talk about and when you do, you end up having the same arguments and disagreements over and over again. Or maybe you find that the lack of sofa and cuddle time means that you feel disconnected from him completely... leading you to continue working late into the night in order to gain some sort of productivity and gain from at least one positive thing in your life. |
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And you've tried couples counselling in the past and it works for a short time but soon things go back to normal and it all feels quite helpless. You've done the Personal Development work and in most respects, you feel alive... but you want that feeling in ALL areas of your life. You've buried yourself in work because it's easier than dealing with the relationship difficulties. |
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You feel like you just can't go on like this anymore because you're both miserable, but there are so many layers and it feels too much to work through... you don't even know where to start? |
And you just don't know what to do next...
STAY or GO?
I help women to address all the issues that are really getting in the way of their relationship.
We'll go deep on the issues that are really holding you back, whilst moving you confidently towards your goals, in order to create the business, relationship and lifestyle you dream of!Â
hey there, i'm Pascale lane
Your Relationship & Confidence Coach
Hi, I'm Pascale and I help professional women create the fulfilling relationship they deserve while enhancing every aspect of their life and happiness by addressing not just them, but their entire ecosystem.
As a relationship therapist and transformational coach, I really understand the impact of understanding not just WHO you are, but WHY you are who you are; why your relationship is stuck in a rut; why you feel the self-doubt / lack of confidence that you do… And then help you change it. Not just in the short term, but for good!
And the bonus is that when you have good levels of confidence and self worth, you not only create healthy relationships around you, but are also able to model to your children the value of healthy relationships too.

ready for a change?
Throughout our work together you'll learn how...

To create more emotional space for your relationship

You can work out what it is you really want

You can regain your work/life balance

To figure out the next steps to either reconnect with or disconnect from your partner with peace and harmony

To enjoy the abundance of love with your family and loved ones in the way you really deserve

To create more time to do the things that matter to you most and reconnect with you mind, body and soul
We go deep on the issues that are really holding you back and heal them once and for all, whilst moving you confidently towards your goals, in order to create the business, relationship and lifestyle you dream of!
If you’d like to know more, click the link here to book a free, no pressure call with me.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
You want to reconnect with your partner but you have no idea how to do it
You want to get back the fun and intimacy but everything you feel you have tried so far hasn't worked
You're invested in making it work but need guidance in how to achieve it
You want 'out' but you have no idea how, what or when.. it's all too much to think about
You've done all the personal development work but now you realise what you've been missing all along
There's so much to work through, you need someone with a clear head and no agenda to help you navigate it
You want to regain your work/life balance and create your dreams together.. after-all... that's why you work so hard at making your dreams a reality
this is for you if:
The situation is complicated with money and kids and you don't know which way to turn
You know it needs to change but you can't find the head space to work it out
You've grown and they haven't (not in the same direction anyway) and now you just don't know what to do
You're ready to work through this and figure out a peaceful plan to move forward
You realise things have gone badly wrong but you're at a loss as to how to fix it
You know there are problems and frankly, dealing with the kids is easier than dealing with your partner
You're ready for expert guidance to help you figure out how to not only reconnect, but make it better than it ever was before
You're ready for expert guidance to help you navigate the next steps so you can feel at peace with whichever decision you choose to take

Because the truth is:
You can have whatever it is you want, once you are clear on what that is .
You have the ability to create the relationship and lifestyle you both Desire and Deserve!
You're a high functioning, smart and intelligent woman. You haven't got to where you are now on a whim and a prayer.
But you are stuck because deep-down, you are blocking your own happiness and abundance.
But something is standing in the way of you having it ALL and once we discover what that is, the rest just falls into place.
Not just for now, but always.
Others have done it successfully for years... so why not you!?


I can’t wait to talk to you!
Please be sure to be in a quiet place for the call.
Our call will last approx. 60 minutes so that we can get really clear on where you are now and what is blocking you from reaching the relationship goals you both desire and deserve!
I look forward to speaking with you soon!